Ben39;sbestmanspeechonDad39;swedding

Ben:Wesortofimploded,Iimplodedit,becauseIdonx27;tknowifIcanbewithherforever.Whyiseverybodysoinlove,andjustsosure?Matt:Wearenot.IhavedoubtsaboutAmandaallthetime.Wearenotperfect.MeandAmandagettingmarried,wearejustgoingforit.Wedonx27;tknow.Ben:Sowhatx27;sthepoint?Matt:Becauseitx27;sfun.Itx27;sareallyfunparty,anditx27;snicetotellsomeonethatyouarein,andtosayittotheirfaceinfrontoftheroomfullofpeople,anditx27;snicetohearitback.Rightnowyoux27;rekindoflikethatguyinanice-creamstorewhosampleseverysingleflavorbefrehepicksone,andthatsucks.Ben:ButhowcanIknowwhatx27;sbestthough?Matt:Youwonx27;t.Ben:WhenyouandMomsplit,itreallymessedmeup.AndIjustdecidedIdidnx27;twanttobelikeyouguys.Ijustwantedtofindtheoneandhangontoherforever.AndnowIx27;mcompletelyalone.Andyoux27;rejustmovingontoyournextfamily.Chuck:Ix27;msorrythatyourmotherandIsplittinguphurtyousomuch.WhatsheandIhadwasgreat.Ix27;dbenothingifIhadnx27;tmether,andIwouldnx27;thaveyou.Andbuddy,aslongasIx27;malive,youwillneverbealone.Benx27;sbestmanspeechonChuckGinax27;swedding:Heyeveyone.Thanksforcoming!Ix27;mBen,andmostofyouhereprobablyknowmeasChuckx27;sson.Andifyoux27;rewonderingwhyIx27;mupheregivinghisbestmanspeech,soamI.Truthis,Iputupaprettybigstinkaboutallthis.Ijustdidnx27;twanttodoit.Tome,athirdmarriagewasill-advised.Imeanhellevenasecondonewashardtoswallow.Ijustdidnx27;tgetit.Ibelieveinthingslikefateandloveatfirstsight,thatonceyoufoundtheone,thatwastheballgame.Butthetruthis,ifyouspendyourwholelifelookingforperfect,youwindupwithnothing.Seetherearemanyinningstothisballgame,andIdonx27;tthinkloveisaboutchancerun-insorcuteaccidents.Itx27;ssimplerthanthat.Itx27;saboutfindingsomeoneyouwanttohangoutwith,aslongashumanlypossibleandjusttryingnottoscrewitup.Butyouwillmessup.Nomatterhowhardyoutry,youx27;llgetinyourownway.Butifyoucanlearnfromyourmistakes,youmightjustbuildsomethingevenbetter.SoIx27;dliketoraiseaglass.Gina,Dad,congratulations!