幸福和成功的抉择

一个平静而失意的下午，任由电影感动。一个好的电影可能不在于带来多少欢笑，带来多少泪水，而在于它是多么的让人回味，并且难忘。《居家男人》推荐给拼尽了青春换取所谓成功，在摩天大厦下孤单，在地铁人海中拥挤，在泡吧喧嚣后落寞，把爱情与回忆交付拼搏的人们；可能你在宽敞的办公室内享受着成功的欢愉，可能你在迈向成功的路上欢欣鼓舞，也或许最惨的是你在茫茫黑暗的绝望中品味苦涩，都请你看看这部电影。看完之后会发现，有时候“成功”并不是我们所想像中的那样，我们对于“成功”的定义往往没有追随自己的内心，而是盲从了社会的庸俗标准。而片中让人感到温馨而快乐的是，Jack在可能的另一种生活状态中，在Kate以及可爱的孩子AnnieandJosh的陪伴下，又去追寻曾经的美好与平静。因为此时Jack明白了，真正的幸福来自内心的平静，而不是优越与炫耀，也不是金钱与地位，或许忙碌的我们应该看到，至少，获得那一下午的全身心的放松，与品尝自己拥有的。那里，应该有甜蜜的味道。Kate在Jack找到新工作的时候，对他说过下面这感人的谈话。Kate:Whenyougotonthatplane,Iwassureitwasover.IlefttheairportafraidIx27;dneverseeyouagain.Andthenyoushoweduptheverynextday.Thatwasagoodsurprise.Youknow,Ithinkaboutthedecisionyoumade...maybeIwasbeingnaive,butIbelievedthatwewouldgrowoldtogetherinthishouse.Thatwex27;dspendholidayshereandhaveourgrandchildrencomevisitushere.Ihadthisimageofus,allgreyandwrinkly,andmeworkinginthegardenandyoure-paintingthedeck.Butthingschange.Ifyouneedthis,Jack,ifyoureallyneedthis,IwilltakethesekidsfromalifetheyloveandIx27;lltakemyselffromtheonlyhomewex27;veeversharedtogetherandIx27;llmovewhereveryouneedtogo.Ix27;lldothatbecauseIloveyou.Iloveyou,andthatx27;smoreimportanttomethanouraddress.Ichooseus.而Jack在飞机场追上要离开去Paris的Kate时候说:WehaveahouseinJersey.Wehavetwokids,AnnieandJosh.Anniex27;snotmuchofaviolinplayer,butshetriesrealhard.Shex27;salittleprecocious,butthatx27;sonlybecauseshesayswhatx27;sonhermind.Andwhenshesmiles...AndJosh,hehasyoureyes.Hedoesnx27;tsaymuch,butweknowhex27;ssmart.Hex27;salwaysgothiseyesopen,hex27;salwayswatchingus.Sometimesyoucanlookathimandyoujustknowhex27;slearningsomethingnew.Itx27;slikewitnessingamiracle.Thehouseisamessbutitx27;sours.After122morepayments,itx27;sgoingtobeours.Andyou,youx27;reanon-profitlawyer.Thatx27;sright,youx27;recompletelynon-profit,butthatdoesnx27;tseemtobotheryou.Andwex27;reinlove.After13yearsofmarriagewex27;restillunbelievablyinlove.Youwonx27;tevenletmetouchyouuntilIx27;vesaidit.Isingtoyou.Notallthetime,butdefinitelyonspecialoccasions.Wex27;vedealtwithourshareofsurprisesandmadealotofsacrificesbutwex27;vestayedtogether.Yousee,youx27;reabetterpersonthanIam.Anditmademeabetterpersontobearoundyou.Idonx27;tknow,maybeitwasjustalladream.MaybeIwenttobedonelonelynightinDecemberandIimagineditall.ButIswear,nothinghaseverfeltmorereal.Andifyougetonthatplanerightnow,itx27;lldisappearforever.Iknowwecouldbothgoonwithourlivesandwex27;dbothbefine,butIx27;veseenwhatwecouldbeliketogether.AndIchooseus.当幸福与成功需要你抉择的时候，你一定要问问你自己，你想不想说出那句：Ichooseus.copy;本文版权归作者哼哼所有，任何形式转载请联系作者。